When you allow yourself to stand and own the truth of your story, the accountability of self-responsibility begins to activate. You become aware that no one is coming to save you, which liberates you from a mentality of denial of authority. There is an awareness that you see what you have created thus far and acknowledging the hurt towards yourself and others. Compassion and loving-kindness towards yourself are so crucial for these wounds to be cared for, which begins the process of alchemy in transforming them into wisdom.
To develop wisdom requires using direct experience, to gain knowledge and understanding of what Fear is and the mind's fiercely consistent part in protecting you in what it has interpreted as danger.
By standing and owning the truth of your story, you are allowing yourself to be lifted higher than the Fear, and the energy within starts to expand. By sharing this energy, it can stir up a reaction in others to awaken a curiosity to look within themselves, so they can remove the weights holding them down.

We ALL have some chapters we do not divulge to everyone, yet when you do not even look at them yourself, you create holes inside yourself. It takes you owning and standing in the truth of your story to be whole. Remember, actions are not who you are; they are the impact on what you are creating.
Are you aware if you have holes, have you ever checked in to see?

When I lift myself higher, I show others that they can lift themselves higher.